Aspergers/Autism is just a bloody label

[MM]

Its good to know what makes us stand out from other people but in the end it really is just a bloody label.  I dont like nt thinking once an aspie always an aspie or when you have a label and yet your far more socially compentent than what they thought you were especially nt girls they get really freaked out(especially people who have told them even though you asked them not too).  As a person with this label it does not stop me from learning social skills or becoming anything I want to become on this planet.  It does get in the way but It does not mean once an aspie always an aspie.  It is just pure bull crap.  Peoples ignorance and fear get in the way more then anything else.  For you more socially compentent aspies dont tell people what you have unless the person is a trust worthy person and has proven themselves beyond the shadow of a doubt that your not gonna be rejected when you do.

The main point is people with aspergers/autism reach for your dreams and dont lett a bloody label or peoples ignorance get in the way of it.  Because where there is a will there is a way.

[Remission]

What do you mean by 'NT girls get freaked out'?

You don't actually tell them do you?  Bad idea.  Tell them you're rich and well-hung instead.   

[MM]

Well if you go up to them and try to say dance with them or something where as you were able to flirt with them easily enough one time if you try to do it with them again after they have found out or worked out they refuse to connect with you or talk to you.  This is mostly young nero typicals between the ages of 14-24 but after this they grow up a little bit.  I cant help being a freak of nature

[Remission]

Well if you go up to them and try to say dance with them or something where as you were able to flirt with them easily enough one time if you try to do it with them again after they have found out or worked out they refuse to connect with you or talk to you.  This is mostly young nero typicals between the ages of 14-24 but after this they grow up a little bit.  I cant help being a freak of nature

I used to care what they thought about me and it made me very depressed.

Nowadays all I want to do is sleep with them and move on.

[MM]

Love them and leave them.  No I dont want to operate like that anymore but thats just a personal choice.  Maybe I am sucker for punishment

[MM]

How did this ment to be serious and encouraging post become a perverted post I was tring to encourage all aspies.

[Remission]

I'm trying to outgrow the label and find my way into young women's hearts.