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Question: What is your relationship status?
Single - 32 (60.4%)
I have a steady boyfriend/girlfriend - 5 (9.4%)
I'm currently dating "around" - 3 (5.7%)
I am legally Married - 9 (17%)
I am not legally married but me and my significant other consider ourselves married - 3 (5.7%)
Other - 1 (1.9%)
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« Reply #45 on: December 09, 2008, 06:45:06 PM »
 The only way got a boyfriend he came out to me found out later on in life that he was autistic. i think it is good any way to be autistic it means me and my boyfriend can understand each other needs and can help each other and care.. so i can go out with an autistic if i want to and my relationship is very strong as we been going out with each other for 11 years
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« Reply #46 on: December 09, 2008, 10:36:03 PM »
Quote from: Kirstyhasautism on December 09, 2008, 06:45:06 PM
well i can never have a relationship with NT because all of them bully me...

Well, my wife is one NT who would never bully you Grin She's a total sweetheart Heart

OK she's not male and she's not free... but she is NT. Cheesy
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« Reply #47 on: December 09, 2008, 11:46:19 PM »

 i dont care if im going out with my boyfriend cos he autistic alls that matters is we r strong relationship we care and love each other and no one can take us away
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« Reply #48 on: December 10, 2008, 02:23:19 AM »
Quote from: Kirstyhasautism on December 09, 2008, 11:46:19 PM
well in my own opinion i have been and still bullied in my life and it wont stop...

Yes. Likewise, I was bullied at both school and in the workplace... and online. However, I have known some NTs who do not bully Autistics... and encountered some who claim to be Autistic who are bullies. I won't argue with you, but it would be a pity if you prejudged all NTs and even my dear wife.

Please know that I despise bullies, whether they be NT or Autistic. I know there are a lot of Autistics who seem to hate NTs... and I think that is as wrong as those NTs who hate Autistics.

I am glad you have found your soulmate Grin Its great when people find their special other. Grin It does hurt a little that it appears from what you say, that you would not accept my special other simply because she fails to be autistic. Sad
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« Reply #49 on: December 10, 2008, 04:10:59 AM »
Strewth... do you wish to have some salt for your chip?

I never said your boyfriend bullys... where the heck did you get that from.

As for you getting worse... be my guest if it makes you happy Roll Eyes

 Confused One tries to be nice to some people and...  Confused
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« Reply #50 on: December 10, 2008, 04:32:22 AM »
Lets keep it level headed please.
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« Reply #51 on: December 10, 2008, 04:33:42 AM »
ok sorry but he is winding me up and its upsetting me a lot i have got my own mental health issues dont need topping up.
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« Reply #52 on: December 10, 2008, 04:34:48 AM »
Probably best for all to take a step back and have a breather from this thread lest it escalate too much Smiley
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« Reply #53 on: December 10, 2008, 04:36:24 AM »
dont understand
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« Reply #54 on: December 10, 2008, 04:38:17 AM »
I mean you say something he said something that upset you so you reply and he's upset so he replies then you reply and sooner or later it becomes a fight. So taking some time away from this particular thread might be a good idea for all concerned. Smiley
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« Reply #55 on: December 10, 2008, 04:39:21 AM »
ok, but he had no right to tell me that im not to have a relationship with my boyf cos he autistic it wouldnt happened if this wasnt bought up
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« Reply #56 on: December 10, 2008, 04:41:37 AM »
I don't think he meant to mean that. Just as you didn't mean to say that his wife is likely to be a bully. A big misunderstanding on both sides, it happens. Smiley
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« Reply #57 on: December 10, 2008, 04:43:36 AM »
i never said his wife bullies. alls i said was NT's bully me a lot thats why there never my friend cos they take advantage of me and becomes worse,, thats all im saying. i never mentioned his wife in any way. but he has to understand that i can choose who i wwant to be with
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« Reply #58 on: December 10, 2008, 04:46:31 AM »
Yeah, I know. It was a misunderstanding. Confusion.

I personally hope you and your boyfriend have a very fruitful relationship, there's not enough Autistic/Autistic relationships out there.

That's not to say Autistic/NT are bad, but they are more common than A/A Wink
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« Reply #59 on: December 10, 2008, 04:46:52 AM »
by the way whats karma
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