what is the sign, that i am aspergers? question from hungary

[pemema]

I'm from Hungary. There is no books from girls or woman with asperger. There isn't no doctor, who really know the signs of asperger. 
My son have asperger, and my brother too. I think, I'm too. 
I didn't want a doll - until I was 14. I have always only 1 friend. I was always alone. It doesn't brother me. I'm permanently afraid.  I'm changed at the age of 13-16 radically. I was melancholy before, now more choleric..
I know, that you arn't a doctor, or so... but can you help me some advice? 
Thank you in advance:
Maria (Budapest)

[zenemu]

Hi Maria,

It is very difficult to say if someone has Aspergers Syndrome because people are affected in a lot of different ways. As your brother and son have Aspergers there is a link in your family so that makes it much more likely. To find out for certain you really need to see a Psychiatrist (ermm - Elmeorvos?) who will perform some tests which will tell you for certain.

[pemema]

Hello Zenemu!
Thanks for your answer. The problem is: there's no doctors in Hungary in the adult health, they have the knowledge from Asperger. I would have a book: Tony Attwood -  Aspergers and girls. I think, i must diagnose myself - like my son and my brother. The Autism Foundation has many specialist. The waiting time is: 4-6 month. It's irritating!
But i think, you're right...
Have you Asperger?

Maria

[zenemu]

Yes I have Aspergers.

Make an appointment with the Aspergers Foundation and write a letter explaining all the reasons you think you might have Aspergers and take it with you. That will help with the diagnosis and may make things go a little faster for you.

Good Luck !

[Aspergers Girl]

Hi there, if you think a diagnosis is worth the wait, by all means do it. I mean 4-6 months is better than never. There is a high probability that you have aspergers if you have some of those traits but it really does differ from person to person. Also, from the information i've read from people, and my own knowledge about myself, it does seem to run in families.

Anyway, good luck and any more questions feel free to ask